This Whole No Complaining Thing

Man, Monday I was rocking it.

I had a meeting at church Monday night and Pastor Jessie asked me how it was going. I said with confidence that I hadn't complained yet. Well, that was day 1. And, it was a snow day (or freezing rain day).  What was there to complain about?

Now, that I'm a few days in.  I have more questions then answers about this no complaining challenge.

How can I have confusion about complaining? But, I do.

• Am I complaining when I nod my head or say 'right' when I'm listening to someone complain for 5 minutes or is that just plain good ol' conversation engagement etiquette.
• If a car doesn't go when the light turns green and you yell "GO!" is that coaching/encouragement or complaining? (Editor's Note: this is submitted by a friend)
• How are you supposed to 'hear' others vent while not affirming their complaints?
• I found myself yesterday joining in someone's complaint because it's like it was socially awkward not to say something about the black ice. What was I supposed to say, oh yes, I love black ice. I wish you could buy it in the store.
• How can I be more of an encourager?

I have learned this week that my days have been filled with joy, turning the cheek, intentional choosing of words, and holding my tongue. 

And, ironically, I have craved chocolate less. I wonder why?

Moral of the Story: I've got more questions than answers. And, that's ok.